All guys including me do this at some point in our life, when you still don't know how to flirt in bars and clubs.
Took me two times of buying a drink to a girl and nothing at all hapening (not even conversation) to realize that I was a moron and this wasn't the way to go. I have learned from my mistakes. I'm now of the opinion that, any girl I could hook up by buying her a drink, I could just as much hook up without.
Doesnt mean Ill never buy a drink to a girl, but it's no longer a means to an objective (an ineffective one at that), rather just something to do for someone yo ualready struck a connection with.
Took me two times of buying a drink to a girl and nothing at all hapening (not even conversation) to realize that I was a moron and this wasn't the way to go. I have learned from my mistakes. I'm now of the opinion that, any girl I could hook up by buying her a drink, I could just as much hook up without.
Doesnt mean Ill never buy a drink to a girl, but it's no longer a means to an objective (an ineffective one at that), rather just something to do for someone yo ualready struck a connection with.