Me and my husband borrow each other's phones all the time.
Not once did we ever go ape shit over it like that. Even when we borrow with out asking. The most we ever do is say "You ass give me back my phone." Or something like it.
Trust me if you are willing to bust through a door to get your phone than you need to think am I so attached to the phone I can't let others see it? Either that or you are doing something you shouldn't be doing and the phone has evidence and if so than you need to get rid of the evidence and cut that shit out.
We were always like this even before we got married. Even with computers. If you consider yourself in a committed relationship where you are only dating each other and even LIVING TOGETHER than you need to realize you no right to get defensive if your partner wants to see your phone or computer. But in the same way do you have a right away or they to DEMAND to use your stuff. It should be given freely.
When I was married, my husband would lock his phone and I could never see it and then one night he had it plugged in and a text message went off on the lock screen (kinda late) from a girl that he had met recently (who had gone on trips with his sports team) that said "Is she home? Can we talk?" So, I personally wouldn't trust anyone who would not let you see their phone. Obviously he is my ex now.
I once threw a pamper bcz my ex wanted my laptop...
Then she threw a big tantrum that I am hiding something..
And at the end.. I lost and gave my laptop to her..
And suspiciously went thru all my connections(both male and female)..
And found nothing..
Absolutely nothing...
Then she fought that I was the reason for the tussle.. and that I had to submit to her at the instant she wanted me to...
Don't blame the guy alone..
The history matters..
Things like this should be glaring warning signs of an unstable and unhealthy relationship. There is so much manipulation and irrationality coming from her in just a few paragraphs I have to wonder why you were even with her?
Not once did we ever go ape shit over it like that. Even when we borrow with out asking. The most we ever do is say "You ass give me back my phone." Or something like it.
Trust me if you are willing to bust through a door to get your phone than you need to think am I so attached to the phone I can't let others see it? Either that or you are doing something you shouldn't be doing and the phone has evidence and if so than you need to get rid of the evidence and cut that shit out.
Then she threw a big tantrum that I am hiding something..
And at the end.. I lost and gave my laptop to her..
And suspiciously went thru all my connections(both male and female)..
And found nothing..
Absolutely nothing...
Then she fought that I was the reason for the tussle.. and that I had to submit to her at the instant she wanted me to...
Don't blame the guy alone..
The history matters..