I never understood why chase the person your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you with. Unless they know you personally and/or know you are together it isn't their fault. Chase the person you are with. Chances are the other person doesn't even know you were together.
"you slept with my wife and now we must duel at high noon"
"but i didnt even know she was married she didn't have a ring and said she was single"
"I DONT CARE YOU FUCKED MY WIFE"
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plot of like half of the old cowboy movies and shows
This has always been my feeling. The one cheating on you owes you allegiance. Their lover does not (unless they are your friend or family). Even if they know the person their sleeping with is with someone, we may not LIKE them choosing to pursue that person, but the one who is actually WITH someone else is the one who should be saying no
This has always been my sentiment. My biological father cheated on my mom and when the girl found out it really upset her. Her friend brought her to the house, to talk to my mom, thinking my mom was going to be pissed at her. Why? My mom sat her down, told her not to judge all men on the actions of a few losers and assured her she was already well done with, and the girl was better off without him. She was already filing paper on the dumbass, he just didn't know it yet.
The only way I could have hated towards another man for screwing around with my wife , would be if they were a "friend" that was once trusted. Other than that , the other man would be somewhat irrelevant.. Catching them on my bed would probably be different.
"but i didnt even know she was married she didn't have a ring and said she was single"
"I DONT CARE YOU FUCKED MY WIFE"
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plot of like half of the old cowboy movies and shows
So rude.