For real tho

I want lemonade, but $3 isn't gonna get you shit in this economy

Don’t confuse want and need. There are people who the most valuable thing they an offer another person is money, because that’s all they have to give as a person. There are people who don’t love people but what people can do for them. Chances are you do t want that life or you wouldn’t be worried about it. Sure they want things, don’t you? Computers, TV, games, car, a nice jacket maybe? Wanting it isn’t the same as demanding it, and it sure isn’t the same as requiring someone else to get it for you. So start with a lemonade (Starbucks, jambajuice, etc in modern speak,) and a conversation while you drink together. Get to know what they have to offer as a person and let them see what you have to offer as a person. Chances are that while they wouldn’t turn down a free bag, and type of person you’d want to date doesn’t expect you to buy it for them. It’s 2018, she can buy her own bag, bring something to the table she can’t buy herself, be kind and attentive and invested. make her feel good