I suppose, but I don't typically think most people think of people they're interested in as daughters or sons... when they do we usually have to get the police involved, and that brings us right back around to the unintended controversy
Yes? But the person that wants to date them doesn't go up and set "hey son! Let's go on a date!" And considering you said this would be from the perspected of a gay dude looking for a boyfriend, I sincerely hope he wouldn't be approaching guys going "hey son! Lookin' good! How bout we go back to my place, son? I know you got parents out there somewhere."
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... if that is his approach, we may now have insight into why he's not having any success
What? No it does not. Unless I grievously misunderstood the plot and Li Shang is actually coming on to the entire army.
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I'm not sure if you're deliberately ignoring parts of what I'm saying, or if you're misunderstanding me, but I am talking about ROMANTIC/SEXUAL interactions. This is in response to your original comment being about a "gay dude looking for a husband."
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Admittedly i've never been married, but if anyone came on to me saying "hey, daughter, let's go fuck" I'd call them a creep and tell them to go away. As would most sane adults I know.
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If a gay guy refers to people in an unromantic context as daughters & sons that's a little weird, but whatever. It's also a completely different situation than what we've been discussing. If you're going to persist in talking about a situation like this, which is not relevant to the context of your original comment, then you are free to do so, but it has nothing to do with what I've said so far. :s
nothing about the song is actively referring to any specific person. Nothing about the lyrics gives any indication that anyone is calling anyone son or daughter individually. Its a song. They lyrics refer to men as sons and women as daughters. It is not however anywhere saying that anyone would ever say "hey, daughter, let's go fuck." There is literally nothing connecting those two things.
you would say "did they send me men or did they send me women" but that does not at all imply that anyone is going up to people and saying "hey woman lets go fuck"
Okay so a this point you are actively ignoring what you yourself and what I said. I can't communicate with you if you're going to deliberately ignore what I've said 5 or 6 times in a row to make your own point.
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Downvote me all you like, it literally changes nothing.
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I'm going to try, one last time, to make it abundantly clear:
I. Am. Talking. Specifically. About. Romantic. Context. Because. You. Said. "A gay guy looking for a husband." If a gay guy hits on people by calling them his sons, that's creepy as fuck. You can continue on and on about the other nonsense all you want-- it has no bearing on what I was saying.
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I was not referring to the song In a romantic way-- YOU implied that, and I responded.
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If you still don't understand what context is, and why there are different contexts between the examples we've been discussing, I literally cannot help you. Either way I'm not prepared to waste any more time trying to explain that I'm talking about a SPECIFIC CONTEXT
Which I have said a MYRIAD of times, and you INSIST on slathering that statement over every other possible example you can come up with outside of that context.
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Maybe someone else can explain what I've been saying, I literally am beyond exasperated, and any further effort is going to cause me to become rude, which I don't really want to do, especially over such a ridiculous topic.
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Thank you and good night
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Side note-- I am unfollowing the comment chain, so if you actually want to communicate with me you'll have to tag me, but at this point it seems we are actually incapable of communicating on this subject, so I'm not sure it would be worth the effort o.O
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Did they send us daughters
When we asked for sons?
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... if that is his approach, we may now have insight into why he's not having any success
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I'm not sure if you're deliberately ignoring parts of what I'm saying, or if you're misunderstanding me, but I am talking about ROMANTIC/SEXUAL interactions. This is in response to your original comment being about a "gay dude looking for a husband."
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Admittedly i've never been married, but if anyone came on to me saying "hey, daughter, let's go fuck" I'd call them a creep and tell them to go away. As would most sane adults I know.
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If a gay guy refers to people in an unromantic context as daughters & sons that's a little weird, but whatever. It's also a completely different situation than what we've been discussing. If you're going to persist in talking about a situation like this, which is not relevant to the context of your original comment, then you are free to do so, but it has nothing to do with what I've said so far. :s
you would say "did they send me men or did they send me women" but that does not at all imply that anyone is going up to people and saying "hey woman lets go fuck"
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Downvote me all you like, it literally changes nothing.
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I'm going to try, one last time, to make it abundantly clear:
I. Am. Talking. Specifically. About. Romantic. Context. Because. You. Said. "A gay guy looking for a husband." If a gay guy hits on people by calling them his sons, that's creepy as fuck. You can continue on and on about the other nonsense all you want-- it has no bearing on what I was saying.
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I was not referring to the song In a romantic way-- YOU implied that, and I responded.
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If you still don't understand what context is, and why there are different contexts between the examples we've been discussing, I literally cannot help you. Either way I'm not prepared to waste any more time trying to explain that I'm talking about a SPECIFIC CONTEXT
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Maybe someone else can explain what I've been saying, I literally am beyond exasperated, and any further effort is going to cause me to become rude, which I don't really want to do, especially over such a ridiculous topic.
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Thank you and good night
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Side note-- I am unfollowing the comment chain, so if you actually want to communicate with me you'll have to tag me, but at this point it seems we are actually incapable of communicating on this subject, so I'm not sure it would be worth the effort o.O
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