It's fun to be ugly

r/niceguys

Don't forget fat. We're also fat.

Good men (and women) exist all over the spectrum for looks etc. looks, money, etc- they are just things that enable people to show their true self. Sometimes a person has to discover who they are- a person who may not have been inherently kind mind learn to be kind by being “undesirable” and truly understanding how it feels to be hurt by that. A seemingly kind person who simply lacks power like looks or money may actually be a real jerk if they ever gain the ability to have the sort of power that these things can give- and likely a person not used to either having or not having these things may go through an adjustment period if that suddenly changes- or some other life event changes them. The trick isn’t that “ugly” people are nice people or vice versa- it’s to genuinely try to get to know people and be mindful not to let looks blind you to who they are as a person.

Oof I’m getting neckbeard vibes