Dude- it’s tinder. At least in my experience on tinder as a man? 9/10 times in the 27 and up range of tinder ladies? If you show up with no kids, A job, A car, and no crippling debts or baggage and emotional issues- you’ll be treated like a rock star if you even put in a little effort and behave enough not to be a public embarrassment.
Tinder dating is like buying something on Craigslist. You’re already a winner if you don’t get scammed or murdered. If they don’t flake you’re more ham half way there. They’ll leave some stuff out of the ad and set the bar high with some unreasonable expectations in exchange, because they know that if they ask $400 you’ll come offer $50, and then you’ll both agree to the $100. So if they ask for all that, you’ll show up 4’ shorter and $50k under in the car you share with your roommate- and that’s close enough if they have a good time. If they said “ok. You can be 5’ tall and work at Arby’s...” the guys who show up would be serial killer dwarfs. Art of the deal man. As for “no fatties...” that’s what pictures are for. SMH. This is America. An important skill here is to learn how to discriminate without making it obvious. So that’s your bad not theirs.
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