Not fun to be in a relationship where you feel like you’re being gaslighted. Hopefully this will help her end it and 100% move on, not taking him back. Support from the community, even a person you don’t know, can be helpful to feeling like it’s not just someone saying ‘there’s no problem’ versus your sense that there is.
That uncertainty can keep you in a cycle where you’re not sure. Maybe the relationship is/was great. Maybe I’m just paranoid, maybe I wasn’t fair. I just need to adjust, like he says. That’s where you get expressions like ‘Girl, stop wasting your time and makeup money on crying. RU dating a man or jalapeño juice?’
That uncertainty can keep you in a cycle where you’re not sure. Maybe the relationship is/was great. Maybe I’m just paranoid, maybe I wasn’t fair. I just need to adjust, like he says. That’s where you get expressions like ‘Girl, stop wasting your time and makeup money on crying. RU dating a man or jalapeño juice?’