Do american kids really all have to draw a family tree or is it just a movie thing?
4 years ago by pleablame · 791 Likes · 10 comments · Popular
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honeybumblebee
· 4 years ago
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When I was in high school we had an assignment of our family history and to see how far back we could go. It wasn't a "tree" it formulated as a paper bag. So the premise is that the outside of the bag is your family the front is for immediate family, the two sides are for the mother and father extended sides, and the back are the great/great grandparents. It was mainly to teach us about history (from what regions of the world we came from) health/science (for human traits and illness) and the cultural change. Yes I know that goes with history but it is meant to focus on how our forefathers/ancestors adapted to society in changing years. The inside of the bag is you. How everything about your experience of family created your existence (what made you, you). You placed key components that you identified with that would give as a representation of you. Everyday objects or family heirlooms that you hold dear to you would please inside the bag.
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honeybumblebee
· 4 years ago
On the outside of the bag we were only allowed to use symbols/magazine pictures or imagery or drawings to represent our family traditions and customs. It was really fun, I think it was the only assignment that I ever truly enjoyed doing in high school. I got to know so much from my dad's side of the family, that I had historical figures related to me (albeit not ones you would be proud of due to their actions and beliefs). It also gave me a better understanding of why parents are terrible people or rather terrible at parenting. The many hardships they endured and experienced. My mother has a very secret past, she hates talking about her past and her side of the family. She told me just a few things, things I regret to know but nonetheless I understand now why she is complete horse shit. It gave me a clear grasp of who I am, without going into to much detail I am happy for who I am regardless of my bloodline.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
When I was in school the most they really did for a “family tree” was for kids- like a literal tree where they put their parents, brothers, maybe grandparents- basically 1-3 generations of immediate family, just names only or maybe Pictures- usually just as decorations for school functions like “back to school night” “open house” “parent teacher night” etc They kinda stopped (in my area) when “traditional” heterosexual nuclear families became no longer the default assumption and it could get complex or sensitive/problematic to do. In high school or college you might have some sort of family research project- but no school/classes I took required like an actual genealogical tree or anything. I don’t remember it being a thing really- maybe just like an “art project” sort of thing and then maybe once or twice in all my years.
kcat
· 4 years ago
We did family trees too but maybe up to great grandparents if they were known
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jokur_and_batmon
· 4 years ago
I remember doing a few in grade school and one in high school. It’s always super upsetting when you are the kids with only half a tree, the kids with a tree so large you don’t get time to finish, or that kid that doesn’t know anyone past their immediate family. (I managed to be all three and very annoying as a child)
kcat
· 4 years ago
I reeeaaally need to see your family tree now
jokur_and_batmon
· 4 years ago
Well ya see..I don’t know my biological dad but I’ve had 3 step dads (hence the half my tree missing). So all on my moms side, my grandma and mom each had 6 siblings (my grandad married 7 other times) those siblings then went on to have either loads of kids or be hella gay. However, since there’s so many of them and we’re all military I’ve seen less 25% of my family (large tree that lacks a lotta the people I’ve never met).
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kcat
· 4 years ago
Oh wow O.o
jokur_and_batmon
· 4 years ago
See how that’d get annoying?
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kcat
· 4 years ago
Yep I feel for you *hug* you’re safe now, no more family trees