Seriously

You have to use catfish filter

Lower your standards

Grind to unlock a better character

Phone a friend lifeline. A good picture, the right pictures, and a good bio will do most of the heavy lifting. If you have a friend who is into portrait photography or the social media life they can really help with polishing up your profile to put forward the best picture of you. Other than that- get out there and do, learn, and grow. Attracting attention is only one part of the battle. A Boring or bland yes becomes a no quickly- but an interesting maybe can easily become a yes too.