Yep, it's called "duyên âm" means fate from the other side.
To get rid of it (so you can get married) you have to ask fortune teller to process some special ceremony.
My grandfather uses to do those ceremonies too and my aunt actually had one after being single for a long time and she did get married right after.
When I was 15 I started imagining sthg like this, I had this imaginary friend (yes I know it's too late to have imaginary friends but hey, as long as it kept me alive...) and started to think he was withdrawing actual friendships and relationships to be alone with me. I wrote an (unpublished :'( ) book based on that!
So great, now I discover I was both crazy and an involuntary plagiarist.
To get rid of it (so you can get married) you have to ask fortune teller to process some special ceremony.
My grandfather uses to do those ceremonies too and my aunt actually had one after being single for a long time and she did get married right after.
Although my grandfather is fortune teller, I don't believe in those stuffs at all so I never ask him anything or look into it.
So great, now I discover I was both crazy and an involuntary plagiarist.