I was going to go into a target with my husband about a year or 2 ago and I was wearing flip flops. On the way into the store I stumbled. I didn’t fall but I ended up ripping the strap making it unable to walk in them. Unlike most girls I have 1 pair of shoes and that is it and at that moment it was those flip flops.
My sweet husband went to the car and pulled out duct tape and taped the shoes for me. I told him I am going to the car I can’t stand being seen with taped up shoes. (One of the things I worry about is people thinking I am trash due to how I look. I know it is silly but it just one thing I can’t get over.)
My husband bless him said give me your shoes and gave me his. He than walked into the store wearing my shoes.
He suffers from anxiety yet put on the shoes so I could wear his.
By the way they were black and on the stripes was black jewels and the whole flip flop was platform so it made the wearer a good 2 inches taller.
He giggled like a little girl the whole time.
Yes I got a pair. I gave him his shoes back once I was in the shoe department.
I just put on the new shoes and gave the tags to the cashier. I explained my shoes broke so there was no trouble.
I would of said this but ran out of room and didn’t want to start a new comment.
My husband did say I am insane for wearing platform flip flops lol he said he felt like he needed a purse and a thong lmao
Hell no, I'm with @kcat, have been for quite a while. And I don't think expecting someone to carry her own shoes after giving her yours is asking much. I was that guy for a long time and it doesn't get you any bonus points
Also I'm not criticizing @mrscollector 's husband or what they did, he wore the shoes in place of her staying in the car, that's sweet and a big difference. The guy in this picture isn't wearing the shoes, he's dragging them around
i've learned it's not about doing something that they can do on their own, it's the little things that make the difference, it can quickly turn from "it's ok, i can carry my own" to "why the hell doesn't he help".
And I'm saying you can do like I did and spend 15 years with a woman doing all those things that you think will get you a knighthood and infinite love or you can find a woman that actually figures some of these things out for herself. Respect goes both ways.
Wait, what? Do you not do nice things for your partner? In a good relationship everyone does everything they can to make the other person comfortable and happy, not rigidly make sure each person pulls exactly their weight in every single situation. There's a thousand reasons why he might choose to carry her shoes and none of them make him "a total fucking simp."
Alright I really don't know what it is you people aren't understanding. All I ever fucking do is nice shit. However, if you're the only one doing nice shit, guess what? You're being taken advantage of! Doing nice things goes both damn ways! I would gladly let my girlfriend wear my shoes and guess what, I fucking have in the past! But a considerate partner would say "Hey, thank you for letting me wear your shoes, the least I can fucking do is carry my heels." I spent 15 years with a woman where things didn't go both ways like that, and I was a tool for it. And if you're significant other can't even be bothered to do something even mildly considerate, you're being taken advantage of too. We aren't talking about chivalry here, I'm not saying don't offer her your coat when it's cold, or don't give her your last bite of food. I'm saying don't be a fool that lets a person walk all over you. For fuck's sakes
Okay, so it seems like you're applying your experience in a relationship with a toxic person to the situation in the photo. Obviously it's horrible that you felt so taken advantage of. But over the internet we have zero insight into anyone's relationship. You sound like you're saying that her not carrying her own shoes is inherently a terrible act in every possible context, but it's not.
I get what you are saying
You are saying if you are the only one being “nice” in the relationship than you might get taken advantage of.
But you also don’t know the whole story of the picture maybe she does things like make his favorite meals or maybe she will buy him a thank you gift or maybe they are just starting their relationship and him doing that just shows her he is a keeper and she will give him just as much kindness as she shows her.
Or maybe he is the reason they are walking and why her feet hurt so he is making it up to her because he feels bad.
We can’t know except what we do know a guy is with a woman and we see he is carrying high heel boots while walking barefoot while she is wearing boys shoes.
They may just be siblings we just have to give our 2 cents and remember not to pass judgement because we don’t have all the facts.
My sweet husband went to the car and pulled out duct tape and taped the shoes for me. I told him I am going to the car I can’t stand being seen with taped up shoes. (One of the things I worry about is people thinking I am trash due to how I look. I know it is silly but it just one thing I can’t get over.)
My husband bless him said give me your shoes and gave me his. He than walked into the store wearing my shoes.
He suffers from anxiety yet put on the shoes so I could wear his.
By the way they were black and on the stripes was black jewels and the whole flip flop was platform so it made the wearer a good 2 inches taller.
He giggled like a little girl the whole time.
I just put on the new shoes and gave the tags to the cashier. I explained my shoes broke so there was no trouble.
I would of said this but ran out of room and didn’t want to start a new comment.
My husband did say I am insane for wearing platform flip flops lol he said he felt like he needed a purse and a thong lmao
You are saying if you are the only one being “nice” in the relationship than you might get taken advantage of.
But you also don’t know the whole story of the picture maybe she does things like make his favorite meals or maybe she will buy him a thank you gift or maybe they are just starting their relationship and him doing that just shows her he is a keeper and she will give him just as much kindness as she shows her.
Or maybe he is the reason they are walking and why her feet hurt so he is making it up to her because he feels bad.
We can’t know except what we do know a guy is with a woman and we see he is carrying high heel boots while walking barefoot while she is wearing boys shoes.
They may just be siblings we just have to give our 2 cents and remember not to pass judgement because we don’t have all the facts.