The big sad

I could turn you into a man

Idk how that would help

Idk how that would help

You wouldnt have depression anymore

He doesn’t seem to suffer undue anxiety, apathy, loss of interest in things that used to bring him pleasure, moods wings, or a General discontent. He isn’t particularly prone to social isolation, crying, agitation, or irritability. He doesn’t really exhibit any signs of depression- and in fairness- a person with depression- others may not notice. They may even hide the signs. But nothing about Irohs character other than he occasionally shows sadness or remorse over the past- indicates he has depression.

He loves meeting new people and enjoys socializing. Even in Kora where he has retired to the spirit realm, he has friends and regular gatherings. He enjoys and actively pursued his passions like Tea and pai sho. The shoe doesn’t fit. Starting and running a successful tea shop can be done while depressed, sure. But we don’t see Iroh showing really any signs of depression or even any words or signs hinting he has it.

The closest I recall would be when he was in fire nation prison- but I feel it was made clear that his near catatonic or animal state was a ruse to lure his guards in to complacency. The ability to get himself in shape and plot an escape through most of his imprisonment suggests as much.

Legends- anyone who lives long enough- will have some things to be sad on, bouts of nostalgia, or some dark times. But legends, and Iroh- don’t have to have depression. They can, having depression or being depressed doesn’t diminish a person or their accomplishments- it is a state but not a defining factor- but I reject the premise.