that's honestly a really sad mindset to have.
eyes aren't gendered, yet this person is so caught up in thinking they have to look perfect, that they truly think they are.
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i mean, my eyes are weird too, but all my siblings' (from my bio father's side) eyes all look the same, so it's in no way a gender/sex thing.
and even then, eyeballs are just *orbs*, if anything it would be eyelid shape, right?
it would be more than eyelid shape, more like bone structure which we cant really fix tho it seems like, based on the artificial eyes thing, they seem to think their actual eyeballs are "wrong" which seems to be closer to dysmorphia rather than dysphoria, tho i wouldnt be suprisied if a professional headshrink was to say that the dysmorphia stemmed from the dysphoria being dealt with incorrectly and unhealthfully. From what ive read in the past about the topic, while surgery is a thing they do and is a thing generally accepted to be an actual solution to the problem, a big part of the treatment is also a lot of therapy related to exactly what this post is on about, letting the dysphoria dictate activity, rather than the activity being crafted to help deal with the dysphoria.
If what they meant is the shape of the eyes, surgery can only do so much.
If they meant the eyeballs, the colours of the eyes, contact lenses are a thing.
But it's probably their mind and insecurities.
eyes aren't gendered, yet this person is so caught up in thinking they have to look perfect, that they truly think they are.
.
i mean, my eyes are weird too, but all my siblings' (from my bio father's side) eyes all look the same, so it's in no way a gender/sex thing.
and even then, eyeballs are just *orbs*, if anything it would be eyelid shape, right?
If they meant the eyeballs, the colours of the eyes, contact lenses are a thing.
But it's probably their mind and insecurities.