Get wholesome. Stay wholesome.

Oh you think that's true because you have research to prove it? Ha ha, oh sweet child of course not. Your forgot the rule of "because I'm an adult and cannot be wrong." .. no, I have no idea of what this meme speaks.

Oof

I mean, I'm sure it *can* do that, but I don't think its very useful to make hard cause/effect links between character traits and experiences like that.

I am not sure that "gaslighting" is always the correct term for what happens, but in a general sense, yeah, I can totally see this happening.

Once you've had that epiphany you're ready to work through it. But you'll find it useful with your own kids. And way fun with your nephew/nieces