That's correct. There's toilets to put those in. If they clog the toilet, use a plunger and shove them into their place (I can't remember the word for what toilet stuff go into at the moment)
5 years ago is not far enough to help. If you say 10 or 15 would help. For 5 all I can say is stop getting emotional attached to my grandparent inlaws they are assholes (is that 1 word or 2? Whatever?) They are racist, sexist, tight assed, rude, lieing SOBs. The grandmother said she saw me on America's most wanted for stealing teacher's checks in Texas. We had to have a cop show up and get my recod pulled and she said I whipped my file clean to hide the truth. The cop said there is no way i could do it she still thinks i did it. The grandfather i helped him after he had surgery to remove "ass cancer " i had to cook, clean, and empty shit and piss bags, not mention wait on him hand and foot, and after all that he said i stole from him. He says i stole his wallet. I wish i fucking did.
*list about 100 pages long*
That should mess with past self sufficiently.
So that part worked out.