Good explanation though
Edit: waiting for the feminists to say some bullshit like "it doesn't exist! Just cause you're nice to a girl doesn't mean they owe you sex!!!!" Even though that's not what anybody is saying.
People can gain/lose feelings overtime. You may not have the same feelings when you start to talk to them, but then gain feelings for them as you get to know said person
What I'm saying is take your shot or move on. Most men in serious relationship, particularly married men don't have female friends. If you take a shot and she doesn't reciprocate, odds are your friendship won't last. Guys are only in the friend zone if they allow themselves to be. I'm not saying you can't get out of it, but be realistic.
And that's your prerogative. My beef is with the guys that complain about being in the friend zone. Either be content with your situation or pull out all the stops to try and woo her... Do or do not, there is no try.
there is fly high or crash n' burn
but I'd rather not risk it so I stay in the hanger. And wait until some idiot spills fuel everywhere and blows me up.
Not sure what that analogizes to...
The girls WILL still accept your gifts, effort and time ("Oh, he gives the best back rubs") before letting you know you're in the FZ, though. Once you know you're FZed, anything after that is your own fault. Once she's been honest with you, use your "dating effort" on someone who might appreciate it.
It's just always so *sad* to realize you've been girlfriendzoned and someone you thought was honestly a nice person has just been trying to get into your pants.
Edit: waiting for the feminists to say some bullshit like "it doesn't exist! Just cause you're nice to a girl doesn't mean they owe you sex!!!!" Even though that's not what anybody is saying.
Not these lamps.
but I'd rather not risk it so I stay in the hanger. And wait until some idiot spills fuel everywhere and blows me up.
Not sure what that analogizes to...