People who say "you should exercise" and "I'm just worried about your health" are 90% of the time talking to people they don't know and don't actually care at all about health. They just have a weird, raging urge to insert themselves in somebody else's (admittedly bad) choices even though it usually has nothing to do with them.
Plus how do they know this woman isn't in the middle of losing weight? It's completely possible that she used to weigh 400 lbs and now only weighs 250 bc of diet and exercise. Fat people don't just exercise once and then suddenly have a normal BMI *eyeroll*
I would say anyone that big would know and be ashamed and more likely more depressed at yet another comment, whether it is meant in a mean way or not, but people like this? Nah, people "proud" of it are just fucking insane.
Being okay with yourself is one thing. Sure, accept yourself, don't let it eat at you and destroy your mental health, but dont promote it as healthy when its not.
If you see a guy at a bar having a drink or drunk do you stop to tell them they shouldn't drink so much and it's bad for them, When someone tells you they are proud about their new truck or SUV do you tell them how fiscally irresponsible it is, how bad for the environment and all the ways they don't need an SUV or truck? Likely not. Likely you keep your mouth shut because if you aren't good friends and you don't know their life you're just flapping your gums. You are just thinking you're somehow smarter and know something an other grown adult doesn't know. "Wow! I never knew that being 300lbs over weight was unhealthy. No one ever told me. Thank you stranger. And Twinkies antent as healthy as broccoli?! BOOM. Mind blown!" There's a reason these people grief over the internet, and not in person to outlaw bikers and the like. They just want to pick on someone's and pretend they are doing "right." If so why not preach to overweight outlaw bikers in person? These people are trolls.
I never said they weren't. I said that on the whole these folks don't really try to talk mess to overweight people who look like or have a perception of being able to kick their ass. Also, I didn't say bikers. I said outlaw bikers, who can also be quite awesome.
Hey, I, as an overweight person, am currently working to lose weight. I've started biking every day now, and I'm starting to feel a little better about myself. Just knowing that I'm starting to work to improve myself helps me a bit.
Granted, promoting an unhealthy lifestyle isnt a good idea, BUT at the same time, there are ways to tell someone how to lose weight without being an anal nutbag. Like inboxing them so you dont humiliate them. Because thats not going to help, they'll just retaliate. This guy obviously just wanted a chance to share his opinion and be edgy.
She could be exercising everyday to lose weight tho
You don't know that
But they are damn right about one thing ''if you don't like something about yourself, work hard and fix it''
I know there are people who go around rambling shit about themselves everyday in front of other begging for their pitty but won't do a single crap to change it
Don't be one of those people
Being okay with yourself is one thing. Sure, accept yourself, don't let it eat at you and destroy your mental health, but dont promote it as healthy when its not.
You don't know that
But they are damn right about one thing ''if you don't like something about yourself, work hard and fix it''
I know there are people who go around rambling shit about themselves everyday in front of other begging for their pitty but won't do a single crap to change it
Don't be one of those people
Wow.
Way to go with the Nuclear Option right out of the gate.