As someone who has never personally got into an argument with you
I don't know if you been a dick or not but what matters is that you are here with us
at the end of the day we all come here for fun
This really made me reconsider too and not go back to my aggressive behavior on this site
I don't think we ever had a fight lol but it is very kind of you to admit you realized you were being mean and/or rude. I am also glad you came out safe from such a terrible thing. And you are taking something so positive from it.
And if we ever did fight it obviously was nothing that stayed in my mind. So it must of not been that big of a deal lol
I don't recall getting into an argument with you, but I probably have, and it was probably my fault, so don't sweat it dude. Good on you for trying to make a change.
Everyone has the potential to be an asshole, and I daresay everyone has been an asshole on on this site at least for a part of their lives. I know I have. Don't sweat it. There are more important things than holding grudges.
Im so sorry that you were in an accident. That must have been terrifying and I'm glad you are ok. In regards to the new leaf you are turning over- I'm proud. It takes a lot of courage to admit when you've done less than favorable things and a lot of will to change it. The thing that matters most is who you are now. As long as everyday you strive to be a better person than you were the day before, you're doing just fine.
I am glad you're alright. I can only speak for me but let me say this- From what I've seen you are intelligent. You see possibilities. I don't always agree with your views but I've noticed that you have the one thing anyone needs to be a good person, you are open to learn. You have heart, and are trying to reach out. I applaud your strength. No one will ever be perfect, and we all have moments we later look at from a different perspective and feel we could have acted different. As you say, life is too short. Too short to hold anger in our hearts, too short to regret things. Best wishes going forward. Don't beat yourself up, just work at becoming the person you wan to be and have patience with yourself while you learn. And thank you for having the guts to own your imperfections. Not everyone does.
I never discussed with you, but some of your comments were a bit offensive. I'm so very glad that you survived, and I'm happy for you to decide to change around. I hope to talk to you, and you really don't understand how much we appreciate that you're still here @trashmanrevenge
@third I'm trying to not start any more shit with you, but @trashmanrevenge said he will not be a dick and start random shit anymore. What exactly about that is bad?
Everyone cares what people think. Maybe to different degrees and for different reasons, but we care. Most cases of being an asshole are caused by disregard for others. When we don't take the feelings of others into account we are much more likely to hurt their feelings. Your "spine" isn't your willingness to disregard others feelings. It's your ability to remain true to your own convictions which can be done while being considerate to others. Having convictions doesn't mean not being able to admit you are wrong about things you are shown to be. That's stubbornness.
I don't know if you been a dick or not but what matters is that you are here with us
at the end of the day we all come here for fun
This really made me reconsider too and not go back to my aggressive behavior on this site
And if we ever did fight it obviously was nothing that stayed in my mind. So it must of not been that big of a deal lol
Wuss. It's good you got through unscathed, though.