You can't live someone's life for them, and most people resent people trying. If your big enough to make your own decisions you're big enough to live with the consequences. If your friend wants to blame someone else tell them look for another patsy or keep walking. Otherwise if you want to deal with their immaturity it's up to you.
I have a friend who on 2 accounts I told her that the guys she was dating was no good. The first one we lived states apart and sent letters back and forth. One letter she tells me about her new bf and how awesome he is. She sent a picture. Dude looks like a rapist from the 70s lol I tell her I don't feel right about him he looks like he will rape you. I think you should leave him. She got mad and stopped talking to me. Yeah he forced her into marrying him in Vegasand raped her which gave her a kid and he sued for custody and won. So she cried and said I was right and how sorry she was.
Guy 2 she tells me she is marrying. I met him all seemed fine. Except the 2 nights before wedding I get this dream that he and her are friends with this other couple and then her new guy drives off and married the other woman and my friend is telling me in the dream o that is fine I let him.
I don't want to tell her the dream but I do she gets super mad but I tell her some bullshit like I think it means I feel I will lose her friendship after she married. Which wasn't it really.
2 years later I get a call from her saying for the whole marriage he kept pushing her to be a swinger which she eventually did and one couple they did it alot with her husband paid more attention to the wife than her more and more and now he ran off with her. She got a divorce and I had to tell her that was what the dream really was about I lied to not hurt her feelings. She blew up on me saying I should of warn her better blah blah blah
So I love her but I can't deal with her drama any more so I check up on her by stalking her social media but never give her mine. She doesn't even know my married last name. So I can easily hide from her.
Oh man mrscollector I'd love to have you as a real life friend. You're a mom. You wouldn't even need kids to be a mom, some people just are... You know?
I had a friend I told her once about her boyfriend he was no good. Turns out he was snapping other girls and told them he was single while they were dating. I never rubbed it in her face or made her feel bad about it. I just wanted her to know because I cared about her and I had a feeling he was bad news. Fast forward to today, she hates me, tries to follow me on social media at least 5 times a month. I refuse every time. And this time when her and her friend tried to follow me at the same time I finally just tweeted “surprise! Persistency is not the key.” And she called me a 5 year old and said my petty shit is why we weren’t friends. Sorry, but I didn’t do anything to you except warn you about your trash boyfriend you stayed with. You were the one constantly texting me to keep tabs on what I was doing and would send your friends onto my social media to see what I was doing in my life. Yet I’m the petty one? Okay. Sounds about right.
I don't have time for stupid bs cause you can't think with your right head
You're not even that noticeable to me
Guy 2 she tells me she is marrying. I met him all seemed fine. Except the 2 nights before wedding I get this dream that he and her are friends with this other couple and then her new guy drives off and married the other woman and my friend is telling me in the dream o that is fine I let him.
2 years later I get a call from her saying for the whole marriage he kept pushing her to be a swinger which she eventually did and one couple they did it alot with her husband paid more attention to the wife than her more and more and now he ran off with her. She got a divorce and I had to tell her that was what the dream really was about I lied to not hurt her feelings. She blew up on me saying I should of warn her better blah blah blah
So I love her but I can't deal with her drama any more so I check up on her by stalking her social media but never give her mine. She doesn't even know my married last name. So I can easily hide from her.
I have one in my clique as well. The reasonable one who takes care of everyone else :)