I feel like asking that on a first date it might tell a little bit about their innate traumas and suppressed emotions. And how they’re working on it seems self evident- by treating dates like job interviews. The only logical answer of course would be that you are acutely aware of your suppressed horniness, and the innate trauma of getting prepared for dates that turn out to be with dull people, and you’re actively working on it by sitting here entertaining this in hopes of at least some heavy making out by the end of the night, but have no expectations and have made enough emotional progress to be satisfied if the dessert ends up being decent.
Don't pop-psychoanalyse me on a first date, thanks.