I have actually honestly never picked up a guy, so do I count this as a success because I’m not sure. What are the instructions oh no *flies away from fear*
The funny thing is, it's technically very easy for women to pick up men, the reason it often doesn't work out is because we usually think women aren't being serious when they act interested in us.
Okay for the greater good of the whole world (and by that I mean for girls who have a hard time doing this) this is serious question. How would a girl express her interest and have the guy take it seriously? Point to be noted is I have terrible social anxiety and so I would only be able to try something that works online haha
Difficult question
Most guys are more fearful of girls than you might think
Perhaps a genuine question, said in a serious manner, such as "I find you attractive and would like to get to know you better. Would you like to take my number/name/social media name etc or go out on a date?" would work on me
That's so tricky, showing interest in anyone online is so vague. Everything can be misinterpreted because you don't have the advantage of tone and body language. If they don't respond right away you think you failed, if they respond immediately you think they're in love. I would say fish a bit, throw out some flirtation, see how it comes back, keep trying if you don't get the response you want at first. Now if you try over and over and over and get like, neutral responses, I'd say abandon ship.
We definitely live in an age where it helps for both parties to know what the other looks like. You can get emotionally involved with someone and sometimes form a bond without seeing each other but there's always the risk that when they finally do see you it just bombs, which sucks but happens. As far as anxiety, like I said with the fishing, I think you can take lots of little steps to let someone know you like them without being super direct, you just have to be patient if you take that route.
Hahaha oh hell no. I don’t know why but I never post anything that’s “personal” about me online so not even any of my social media accounts have pictures or any information haha. Funsub is quite literally the only place where I’m “social” and I’m not joking. I have close family members who would legit not know my voice haha
I get that, I definitely tell people things on funsub that I don't say anywhere else. Well, like I said, try flirting a little bit and see what happens ;)
Most guys are more fearful of girls than you might think
Perhaps a genuine question, said in a serious manner, such as "I find you attractive and would like to get to know you better. Would you like to take my number/name/social media name etc or go out on a date?" would work on me