Yeah I understand he could be shocked if he himself doesn't have that much sex but... what's the reasoning behind that? The time spent together and her personality mean nothing? And if everyone acts like him, she's gonna die alone with a paramount mileage counter.
Can’t support this level of childishness- but I guess it’s better she find out now and better for both of them that he move on with his insecurities. God/Evolution put the playground and the sewer in the same place but I don’t see him driving the distance of her turds and pee, her period effluence or other discharges. By his math how many miles of dick has his or most other men’s hands seen? It’s all such nonsense. If you like the sex with your partner- appreciate what their sexual past has given you.
Hey bud.... 100 thrusts of even mildly vigorous sex is less than 1 minute of pumping. The “low” average at that pace would be about 600 pumps. Using your same math- you’d hit that “distance” in penis at about 33 partners. That’s 0.3 Miles per partner by your other math. So every 3 partners a woman would have about a mile of dick. Ok there bud - how many miles is too many? If she only had 5 Miles would you be cool? Grow up.
I could see maybe not wanting to start having sex with someone because you didn’t want the exposure, but once you’ve been exposed, what’s the point in dropping her now?
The number of partners is not a direct risk factor to anything- a person using condoms and observing safe sex guidelines has a lower chance of getting an STI or pregnant with 500 partners than a person having one single unprotected partner- and IF every one of those partners has and STD for SURE- the person have sex with 500 people has a MUCH lower chance of getting and STD than the person who’s not had sex once.
But if you’re worried about exposure- the better way to handle that is to perhaps... talk about it before having sex or upon starting a new sexual relationship. Questions like: “when were you last tested and what were the results” or “do you have any untreated STI’s?” “When did you finish treatment for your last STI?” “Do you have any other sexual partners currently?” “Have you had any other partners since your last test, or close to it? (If infection occurs close to the test, the test may not detect the infection.)” “How regularly do you get tested? (Likewise- some STI’s remain “dormant” and tests aren’t perfect either- so a person could be infected but not have a positive result when the test is taken. Regular testing over a period lasting until after the last new partner can help find such infections.)”
But- exposure to “dick,” well... there’s no such thing as second hand dick or third hand dick and if there was is recommend never touching any object or person ever because that’s 40,000 leagues of dick. Good ol mom probably has had at least a few miles worth ran through her kisser and this guy doesn’t seem to have cut ties with his mom over it- probably still let’s her kiss him and doesn’t think about all those times she tucked him in with a forehead kiss from lips that had been on daddy or some other guy the morning of or night before. It’s juvenile- that’s all there is to it.
To be clear, that post about miles of dick, was slut shaming pure and simple. And I did say he was a jerk for dropping her. So I find it a little confusing when y’all argue with me like I’m trying to say what he did was alright in any way.
I’m not trying to say there’s anything wrong with her number of partners; I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with not want to be #201. (Whether we are talking about boys or girls). Statistically speaking, as number of partners goes up, so does risk. That’s not an opinion.
However, that’s not what he described. (Which was my point) He implied that he was already having sex and he dumped her on account of her previous partners. And that’s a shitty thing to do. I didn’t mean to imply otherwise.
I’m not trying to say there’s anything wrong with her number of partners; I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with not want to be #201. (Whether we are talking about boys or girls). Statistically speaking, as number of partners goes up, so does risk. That’s not an opinion.
However, that’s not what he described. (Which was my point) He implied that he was already having sex and he dumped her on account of her previous partners. And that’s a shitty thing to do. I didn’t mean to imply otherwise.