yeah, i went to some pretty dangerous places when i was younger, some still exist, an organisation is still around, some people i knew now run parts, but they are not the sort to invite over for a bbq.
I’ve done exactly 1 semi dangerous thing and it was after I was already an adult. In high school I asked my mom if I could skip or she would tell me to (a bird pooped in my hair or I was sick and she couldn’t pick me up)
My mother had two rules that she was very strict about while I was growing up.
1. Don’t get anyone pregnant.
2. Don’t do anything that will require me to have to get involved.
If I kept to those, I didn’t have to lie and she was very clear that she didn’t want to know anything she shouldn’t repeat.
My father had three rules he was very strict about.
1. Stay outside most of the day.
2. Don’t embarrass me.
3. If you get sent to jail, make sure it is for a long time because I will kill you when you get out.
Didn’t much need to lie to either one about what I was doing, Dad didn’t much care for details if I kept his rules and mom loved details on anything unless they could make her an accessory.
1. Don’t get anyone pregnant.
2. Don’t do anything that will require me to have to get involved.
If I kept to those, I didn’t have to lie and she was very clear that she didn’t want to know anything she shouldn’t repeat.
My father had three rules he was very strict about.
1. Stay outside most of the day.
2. Don’t embarrass me.
3. If you get sent to jail, make sure it is for a long time because I will kill you when you get out.
Didn’t much need to lie to either one about what I was doing, Dad didn’t much care for details if I kept his rules and mom loved details on anything unless they could make her an accessory.