Okay this literally fucked me up because I am 90% sure my first relationship started and failed for the same reason: Out of the blue after pretty much hating each other, he said he liked me. Which then spawned into "do I like you or do I like that you like me?"
And now, friends, I can't tell if I still have a crush on the three girls I have crushes on or if it's just me liking them just with an intense need to be their friend, which then just escalated and I can't let myself forget about it anymore.
Blunt truth time:
If you find yourself asking those questions, you might not be in the right place for a relationship. You might need some personal growth and development. If this is true, then it is likely that any relationship you pursue may be doomed to fail.
Do I like you or do I like what I make you out to be in all the imaginary scenarios with you that I imagine because I'm lonely and pretend they're totally possible because you were nice to me that one time?
- my autobiography
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· 9 years ago
saaame. and then i usually forget what has actually happened
Exactly.
"Wait, were we actually having dinner together? No wait I imagined that. He just smiled at me and held the door open for me."
Damn my vivid imagination and knack for sexy details.
Thinking about it accomplishes nothing. Just dive in and come what may. You'll find the answers much quicker that way, though it may be somewhat of a painful experience.
dat tru
And now, friends, I can't tell if I still have a crush on the three girls I have crushes on or if it's just me liking them just with an intense need to be their friend, which then just escalated and I can't let myself forget about it anymore.
If you find yourself asking those questions, you might not be in the right place for a relationship. You might need some personal growth and development. If this is true, then it is likely that any relationship you pursue may be doomed to fail.
oh well I have the rest of my life to get attracted to a war machine.
- my autobiography
"Wait, were we actually having dinner together? No wait I imagined that. He just smiled at me and held the door open for me."
Damn my vivid imagination and knack for sexy details.