This is so right, every time I go out with my friend and their friends for something like their birthday, I'm always the one who is behind, always the one ignored....
I.. Well this is perfect timing. This describes me so extremely perfectly.. I just went to my "best friend's" birthday party and while I wasn't around she told the other girls that "her mom made her invite me..." we've been friends for 3.5 years and I should've seen it coming. she used me but continued the illusion of friendship that I'm now realizing I never had with her.
please tell me you broke her nose!!!! she doesn´t deserve you... I was also that kind of friend but now I only have one REAL friend, besides my sister and parents, and I rather be alone than surronded by liars and fake people
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pssh I'm not-
*starts thinking*
Oh my God. I AM THAT FRIEND
There are a lot of people who relate to this post. Makes me wonder:
What if everyone feels like this? What if in conversation you see the highlight of someone else's sentences, but miss them being cut out? What if they weren't brave enough to call and just sat wondering if anyone like them enough to call them and hang out? What if every single person who exists feels like the one who is left out, and when you realize that: you awaken, and by seeing it you can change it?
Or what if we're all just fucked, socially awkward, and anxiety filled people.
Well, I mean, I remember that for years I was trying to get my friends to cosplay with me and they all said they didn't want to cosplay or go to a convention, turns out the last two conventions they had they all went together dressed up in matching costumes.
Then they denied it when confronted with evidence.
There is nothing wrong with being this friend as your true friends are the ones that come later in life if u just be yourself the friendships you make are the ones worth having
I used to be that friend - then I got real tired of their shit, and went else where. Now I have the best friends I could hope for and we've been close for 11 years! You need to realise what you deserve because no one else is going to x
Remember, for those of use who are that friend, it is part of our nature to fall in step behind others rather than assert ourselves. If it bothers you, assert yourself, demand the attention. If it matters fight for it, if it doesn't enjoy the freedom.
That doesn't sound like friendship and you either have to get new friends or change yourself. This is some loser mentality. Shake yourself off of this type of mental energy.
I've always been this friend and the thing is you can be very happy being that friend but sometimes when you think about how no one wants to do something with you or how you usually don't get invited to do stuff it really hurts because you really do try everything to get to be something more than that friend but you end up alone every single time.
I used to be like this.. until I stopped looking at the people who I was following and realised who had been with me all along :) one best friend is better than a group of 'cool' friends
I was thinking that many of us relate to this kind of post, maybe because we all are tha same. I mean, I bet the others don't come to this pages, because they're not looking for other (i don't know what to say) "worlds". I know a lot of people that don't know this things... and obviously, I'm also THAT friend, because they're not like me, like us...
*starts thinking*
Oh my God. I AM THAT FRIEND
What if everyone feels like this? What if in conversation you see the highlight of someone else's sentences, but miss them being cut out? What if they weren't brave enough to call and just sat wondering if anyone like them enough to call them and hang out? What if every single person who exists feels like the one who is left out, and when you realize that: you awaken, and by seeing it you can change it?
Or what if we're all just fucked, socially awkward, and anxiety filled people.
Then they denied it when confronted with evidence.