At what age really is it considered no longer rape if a female rapes a male? Because it seems their is a age limit. If a little boy is raped by an older woman that is when they say she raped him. But what once he is what (16? 15? 14? 13? 12!?!) is it no longer rape? What year do they just start saying he is lucky a girl wanted to give him some?
I had a good friend he was always kind, smart, good looking, was athletic, and when he was 23 was dating a girl who we all thought was just as kind as he was. NOPE! The bitch abused him physically and emotionally everday. She ould even rape hm. He is a devoted Christian he was saving himself for marriage and one night while he was sleeping from being heavily drugged from being sick she climbed up on him and raped him. He was 23. He is now 36 and still have trouble trusting woman that weigh less than 150.
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It doesn't matter about the age. At any age it's still rape. The only reason why we differentiate with age is because when they're a child they have no concept of sex or consent, it's the same with someone who is mentally incapable/medically retarded etc.
For example if I began to have sex with my husband when he's sleeping it's technically rape up until the point he consents. The whole crux of it is consent. I'm sorry about what happened to your friend. The big problem is is that in some ways it's a bigger stigma for men rather than women in a different way. Women have a tendency to be victim blamed whereas men will more likely be ridiculed and laughed at because other people can't understand HOW it could possibly happen. Women are generally smaller and weaker than men so others can't understand how a man could just "allow" it to happen to them. It's disgusting and terrible.
The age thing is more of a rhetorical question/rant.
I think it is fucked up that guys are told less men are raped than woman all because less men report their rape. And that people think it can't be rape because if he gets hard than he wanted it. My friend was actually told he wasn't raped if he got hard. Can you believe that shit?
Yomna Fouad is a high end prostitute. Most of her victims were johns who paid for sex, a few claim they did not know she was a prostitue, but there was no sex with those ones only massages and then robbery. In other words- if you research the story all physical acts were consensual, the drugging and sex were not related. "If gender roles were reversed" I'm sure a few people would be upset if people assumed rape before knowing any details.
I had a good friend he was always kind, smart, good looking, was athletic, and when he was 23 was dating a girl who we all thought was just as kind as he was. NOPE! The bitch abused him physically and emotionally everday. She ould even rape hm. He is a devoted Christian he was saving himself for marriage and one night while he was sleeping from being heavily drugged from being sick she climbed up on him and raped him. He was 23. He is now 36 and still have trouble trusting woman that weigh less than 150.
For example if I began to have sex with my husband when he's sleeping it's technically rape up until the point he consents. The whole crux of it is consent. I'm sorry about what happened to your friend. The big problem is is that in some ways it's a bigger stigma for men rather than women in a different way. Women have a tendency to be victim blamed whereas men will more likely be ridiculed and laughed at because other people can't understand HOW it could possibly happen. Women are generally smaller and weaker than men so others can't understand how a man could just "allow" it to happen to them. It's disgusting and terrible.
I think it is fucked up that guys are told less men are raped than woman all because less men report their rape. And that people think it can't be rape because if he gets hard than he wanted it. My friend was actually told he wasn't raped if he got hard. Can you believe that shit?