When I was a teenager I used to go to different clubs on teen nights which were every Saturday. And the bouncers all hugged me. But for a different reason than you think. My 2nd oldest brother was a bouncer and all his best buddies were also bouncers. These were guys he known for years. They all knew me since I was 6. Most of them were like unofficial brothers to me. So yeah I got hugs from bouncers lmao.
it depends on the situation...if she has three kids and pawns her children off on other people for her to stay out all hours of the night well then...thats a different story.
Why are SOME men like this. Just because she likes to go clubbing doesn't mean she is less worthy as a person. So what if she loves to dance? So what if she knows the bartender? They could be friends or family. So what if she's had a lot of sexual partners? As long as both parties consent, that's awesome. So what if she likes to drink a little and let loose? So what if she has friends at the club? I don't know why this is even a thought in your head. Let people enjoy what they want. Stop hating on everything and enjoy your time on this earth. There's no reason to waste your life worrying about what your girlfriend did in her wild college days. For fuck's sake, you sexist assholes!
You have a point. A very good point.
But at the same time, it comes down to personal preference. People should never make someone feel bad for any of the things that you mentioned, but they do have a right to walk away from that person if they feel like it is important to them. It's not a "so what if she's done _________" matter. It's a personal preference, but they also have a responsibility to not hurt that person for their own personal preference.
The bouncers always hug me when I'm coming to the club eventhough I actually loathe hugs I do tolerate it from them. Mostly because I also work there and we are very friendly with each other and even when someone is new I will hug them because why not? They're part of the family now. Okay when someone is new they might be a bit confused but it's just the way we do things around here.
But at the same time, it comes down to personal preference. People should never make someone feel bad for any of the things that you mentioned, but they do have a right to walk away from that person if they feel like it is important to them. It's not a "so what if she's done _________" matter. It's a personal preference, but they also have a responsibility to not hurt that person for their own personal preference.