It’s not “cheating” if it’s known. There’s no subterfuge. This individual is just in a one-sided monogamous relationship for some reason. I’m sure there’s a name for it? They’re not exactly poly; I don’t know. *I* wouldn’t enter such a relationship. I’m one-at-a-time type of person and need my partner’s full focus. But he’s not getting cheated on and he’s not a cuckold in the strict historical sense. She’s definitely not seeing this other person without his knowledge.
Ah, see, it turns out the "lover" is a woman, so I think that definitely rules out the cuck definition. He's also shared a bed with them at the least to sleep, taking turns "being in the middle."
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Bear in mind this is all coming from a website that spammed me with advertisements about how Kardi B is making strides for feminism by doing "half-naked twerking on a yacht" (I assume raping men also helps), as well as ads saying men should be "made to lactate" to promote equality.
That - is an upsetting mental image. (I also briefly struggled and failed to figure out any version of the last sentence that isn’t a disaster in logic.) I assume the ad is for the therapy services we all need now? Jeez. Okay, thank you; good wishes that your internet wanderings bring you to less stressful sites in the future.
@debbidownr what if I told you that was one of the less stressful sites my wanderings have brought me to?
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Haha in seriousness though it's all good. It gave a pretty quick idea of what kind of website I was on, and to approach it with a very large grain of salt.
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@creativedragonbaby indeed, although for me it's not so much about whether men CAN lactate, it's promoting the idea that they should be made to - particularly when you keep in mind that male lactation is something that typically occurs in situations of extreme stress (think: Prisoner of War levels of stress). Also that they typically do not produce enough milk to sustain an infant, and any potential process involved of forcing their bodies to do so sounds unnecessarily stressful
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Now, Admittedly, I did not watch the video they were promoting, so the title may very well have been exaggerated or misrepresented clickbait, but the implication is still disturbing.
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Bear in mind this is all coming from a website that spammed me with advertisements about how Kardi B is making strides for feminism by doing "half-naked twerking on a yacht" (I assume raping men also helps), as well as ads saying men should be "made to lactate" to promote equality.
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Haha in seriousness though it's all good. It gave a pretty quick idea of what kind of website I was on, and to approach it with a very large grain of salt.
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@creativedragonbaby indeed, although for me it's not so much about whether men CAN lactate, it's promoting the idea that they should be made to - particularly when you keep in mind that male lactation is something that typically occurs in situations of extreme stress (think: Prisoner of War levels of stress). Also that they typically do not produce enough milk to sustain an infant, and any potential process involved of forcing their bodies to do so sounds unnecessarily stressful
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Now, Admittedly, I did not watch the video they were promoting, so the title may very well have been exaggerated or misrepresented clickbait, but the implication is still disturbing.