So here is the thing.
My cousin was a heavy smoker I am talking lite new cigarette with old one kind of smoker.
She had one kid and he was born with a rare birth problem where he was born with a full grown adult liver. It gave him many problems growing up and it was what pushed her to smoking. All the stress of maybe losing him many times.
She was told if she vet had any more kids they would have a 50/50 chance of having the same problem so she decided to never have more.
One day at work she slips and hits her head. They rush her to the er and the doctor says you have a slight concussion but your baby is fine. She says yeah he is at daycare and he says no you are pregnant about 7 and half months.
She had no fucking idea. So she stopped smoking and as she thought she should but the doctor told her it was to late the baby is hooked already. And her stopping is making it sick. So she had to continue smoking but only so much a day. She slowed down like she was told.
She slowly weened off cigarettes with the doctors help. By the time the baby was born she was completely off the nicotine. Sadly the baby was born with the liver problem. She was told from then on all her kids would be born that way so she had her insides cleaned out so no more kids can ever happen because she had her tubes tied after her 1st was born but her 2nd was very determined to be born. Now both are adults and both are heathy.
1. It is a unique scenario even her doctor said normally we would give you something to help but due to the baby already showing signs of a over sized liver like it’s sibling we feel this is the best option.
2. No I haven’t been on one and I know everyone says I should do something with the stories I know. Who knows maybe I will write a book called something like stories of a southern family lol
I know you didn’t mean “unique” literally- it’s certainly a pocket case- but that’s sort of the thing- we never really know a strangers story. We may feel we know how to run their lives better than them... but..... without proof but only suspicion- we kinda just have to trust that whatever that person is doing- they have a reason. At most perhaps a gentle and polite advisement on the facts as we know them may be warranted.
My cousin was a heavy smoker I am talking lite new cigarette with old one kind of smoker.
She had one kid and he was born with a rare birth problem where he was born with a full grown adult liver. It gave him many problems growing up and it was what pushed her to smoking. All the stress of maybe losing him many times.
She was told if she vet had any more kids they would have a 50/50 chance of having the same problem so she decided to never have more.
One day at work she slips and hits her head. They rush her to the er and the doctor says you have a slight concussion but your baby is fine. She says yeah he is at daycare and he says no you are pregnant about 7 and half months.
She had no fucking idea. So she stopped smoking and as she thought she should but the doctor told her it was to late the baby is hooked already. And her stopping is making it sick. So she had to continue smoking but only so much a day. She slowed down like she was told.
2. How have you never been on a daytime talkshow of some kind
2. No I haven’t been on one and I know everyone says I should do something with the stories I know. Who knows maybe I will write a book called something like stories of a southern family lol