It's fine to break up with people for what they did in the past, like you can't accept it or it just bothers you a lot, so much you can't stand looking at the person.
But calling them names and shaming them, that's just overboard.
And not necessarily explaining or talking about what has made you want to leave them is stupid. You want people to be better so why not tell them how to improve? Ya don’t kick the kid off the ferry cause he didn’t tie his shoes
there isnt anything they can do to fix it at this point. In the eyes of fuckwads like that the person is forever tainted and daring to enjoy a sexual experience outside of X arbitrary boundaries regardless of anything else about the person ruins them forever.
In their mind it would be as pointless like saying to someone who had their arm chopped off "well you shouldnt have gotten your arm chopped off"
not like they can get their arm back, just like you cant unhave a gangbang.
for someone that holds the same ideas as expressed in the post, its not just some mistake that a person made, its something wrong with the person thats intrinsic to their being.
But.. and listen to me on this... she's already done one gang bang and admitted this while drunk... thus she has a sexual past considered socially worse than his and surely the way to make amends is to have her stand outside while he has a gang bang with all her girlfriends.
Then they're even...
Also, why aren't girlfriends asking what guys were at her gang bang? "Was MY man there?" Wwas it a straight gang bang or maybe her girlfriends doth protest too much? If so... then how is she NOT wife-y material?
But calling them names and shaming them, that's just overboard.
In their mind it would be as pointless like saying to someone who had their arm chopped off "well you shouldnt have gotten your arm chopped off"
not like they can get their arm back, just like you cant unhave a gangbang.
for someone that holds the same ideas as expressed in the post, its not just some mistake that a person made, its something wrong with the person thats intrinsic to their being.
Then they're even...
Also, why aren't girlfriends asking what guys were at her gang bang? "Was MY man there?" Wwas it a straight gang bang or maybe her girlfriends doth protest too much? If so... then how is she NOT wife-y material?