The things you say out of anger is how you do truly feel but not wanting to hurt peoples feeling always stops you. It’s during anger that the need to not hurt their feelings leave and you tell people how you truly feel about them.
So don’t believe anyone who says I said that out of anger I didn’t mean it. Because that’s not true they will say it again every time you argue and they will think it every time they are mad at you.
It’s why I refuse to name call when in an argument with loved ones or anyone else. I stay on topic and only topic of argument. And if they name call I ask them why would they call me that when I have not once done the same to them.
Honestly it angers some people more because you won’t stoop to their level. Lmfao
I agree mostly, but there are some people that don't lash out without thought when angry. Instead they craft the worst thing they could possibly say to hurt you even if it's a complete lie.
what about fake anger? I tend to do that a lot just so I can say shit and laugh later; I'm not actually angry. I agree about real anger; I've ex-communicated once friends over that.... but i find my fake anger to be closer to a warning. One time in fake anger I walked 15 miles home on dudeman's bday because he asked me why I didn't buy him weed. There was a bicycle I could have taken, but fuck that; he needed to understand the lesson.
So don’t believe anyone who says I said that out of anger I didn’t mean it. Because that’s not true they will say it again every time you argue and they will think it every time they are mad at you.
It’s why I refuse to name call when in an argument with loved ones or anyone else. I stay on topic and only topic of argument. And if they name call I ask them why would they call me that when I have not once done the same to them.
Honestly it angers some people more because you won’t stoop to their level. Lmfao