This is why Hubby and I FLAT OUT say what we want for holidays, birthdays, and our anniversary. Yeah some years we can't buy anything and we admit it to one another so we make plans for it.
My girlfriend and I told each other we wouldn't buy anything for Valentine's day. Instead, we would offer each other something that comes right from the heart. And as we're both artist, that was obviously a drawing!
Awe fuck i love her man
After we were married a year or two and I had to live with all the innuendos and implications I finally told my wife this: I'm going to assume that you aren't lying to me...when you tell me it's OK for me to go out with my friends, I'm going to assume that you mean it's all right. I'm not going to assume that it's not really all right that you just want me to somehow decode your sarcasm. So from then on I said if you don't want me to do something let me know and I'll always consider your wishes, but if somebody's going to a strip club for a bachelor party and you say that it's OK for me to go, then I'm going to go with a clear conscience and you can be as mad as you like after the fact but I'm not going to accept any of the blame.
Still married, btw. I just take her at her word, and she decided she'd rather be clear than to do the "guess what I really mean" female thing. You still have to give presents and cards...I mean, you can't be a DOLT!
Awe fuck i love her man
Hah, no.
Still married, btw. I just take her at her word, and she decided she'd rather be clear than to do the "guess what I really mean" female thing. You still have to give presents and cards...I mean, you can't be a DOLT!