I'm with @anthracite here. I feel like sexual acts shouldn't be treated as an incentive to do something. If I was ever told "I'll have sex with you if you do [insert menial task here]," I would run away from that relationship. People should have sex because of attraction, not as some reward.
Look, if he has to be rewarded to do the damn dishes, he ain't ready for an adult relationship. He should do the dishes because one of us needs to do 'em and I'm folding the laundry.
@abel_hazard She may be incentivising him doing the chores so she doesn't have to. I see nothing on that list how she's sharing them... as in "Don't worry about *thing*, I'll do that."
I really hope the list is a joke, because those kids are going to be growing up in a fucked up home otherwise.
If I was given that list, she would come home to a spotless house. Windows, bathrooms, vacuuming, maybe even yard work and dinner ready to be served by candlelight. After eating, I would give her a kiss on the forehead and tell her "I'm going to bed. I'm tired, I have a headache and I don't feel well. Goodnight."
She'd later find the list crumpled in the trash.
Exactly. She is withholding sex for him doing the chores, with the expectation he won't.
Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship... love, respect and trust come first, but sex is part of a healthy one.
The list tells me he isn't getting any of that.
Poor bastard had kids with her too.
Shouldn't the guy be helping out just as much and the partner who wrote this? Marriage is a mutual relationship, they should be working together. A system like this is fucked up. Pun intended.
I'm sorry but the "Looking after kids for a whole day" item looks like it lists the blowjob as part of the included and necessary tasks. Bad formatting.
It means they're from a specific region where they use the brand name instead of just calling it a "vacuum." I want to say it's most of the UK and parts of the NorthEast US?
So, time playing League of Legends?
I really hope the list is a joke, because those kids are going to be growing up in a fucked up home otherwise.
If I was given that list, she would come home to a spotless house. Windows, bathrooms, vacuuming, maybe even yard work and dinner ready to be served by candlelight. After eating, I would give her a kiss on the forehead and tell her "I'm going to bed. I'm tired, I have a headache and I don't feel well. Goodnight."
She'd later find the list crumpled in the trash.
Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship... love, respect and trust come first, but sex is part of a healthy one.
The list tells me he isn't getting any of that.
Poor bastard had kids with her too.
Ew.