Generally, food shows up, I eat food. You do you, there isn’t a need to speak- we both know what to do with food. Or I do anyway, and what you do with your food is your business. But I may say something like “eat.” If I am eating and you haven’t started, or if you are waiting because I don’t have food yet. Maybe “you don’t need to wait. Go ahead and start.”
In Mexico we do say "Provecho" or "Buen provecho" every time we eat or a waiter/waitress serves our food they usually do say provecho, different cultures. Then again, every time we greet each other here we greet with a hug or a kiss
every half civilised culture honestly has a way of signaling to other people the sentiment that goes along the lines of 'i see you're eating and i hope it's good, i shall not try to talk to you now as i see you're busy chewing'. it's unfathomable to me, coming from a culture where not saying an equivalent of 'bon appetit' is considered terribly rude, that english language doesn't include such a basic phrase on which we built our civilisation.
@guest- While I respect cultural diversity and can understand the confusion that comes from differences in cultural manners- I do find the wording here insulting. The implication being that American culture is not even “half civilized,” a sentiment found in elitism and colonialism. The American culture has at its core tenants of individualism and utility. A pre meal prayer was a common tradition for a majority of Americans at one time, but as the country became more diverse and religion became less central to the masses, such prayers became less common, especially where mixed communities or groups dined together. No common replacement emerged because it wasn’t needed. People are hungry, there is food, people eat. It’s also very common for Americans to talk or do other activities while eating, and it is assumed that one with eyes will see you are eating and are aware of the fact. If you are hungry you will eat. If you are not hungry you will not eat. Generally if everyone...
... present has their food and a place setting- that’s the signal to begin the meal. In more formal dining someone will usually serve. For smaller groups you generally, but not always, wait for everyone to be served before eating. At a very large group, one usually starts eating once those around them are served. There may or may not be a toast. Most American dining isn’t that formal though. Many people do not even eat as a family or group, and many people do not even eat st the dinner table and may eat at their work station, or at home on a couch or chair or even bed while watching tv or doing other things. American culture stems from frontier times where trappings of manners weren’t completely forgotten but largely adapted or truncated to meet the demands of the environment.
I agree, very cool!
I've had an account for about a year but I was lurking for about 6 years before that.
Discovered Funsub through the watermark on a where post way back in the day and just enjoyed it a lot more, been here since!
** NVM, apparently I've only had this account for 6 months.
In my family cause my Dad grew up Christian but no one is really religious he says "Everybody say Grace" then we all scream GRACE and the eating begins.
"time to dig in" someone's a Binging with Babish fan.
Anyway when I'm with friends I usually say "bone apple teeth", otherwise I just don't say anything I guess
we truly are a beyond help as a species as we've allowed a language that doesn't have its own 'bon appetite' phrase to become something spoken worldwide.
Which basically means "On your marks, get set, Eat"
But "Vreet" is like how a pig would eat.. So yeah.
So cool to have a little gang of South Africans
I've had an account for about a year but I was lurking for about 6 years before that.
Discovered Funsub through the watermark on a where post way back in the day and just enjoyed it a lot more, been here since!
** NVM, apparently I've only had this account for 6 months.
WHAT
(also why is everyone asking you this question?)
Anyway when I'm with friends I usually say "bone apple teeth", otherwise I just don't say anything I guess