There some good wisdom here for those with little sexual experience. Some good humor too. While not quite all “on the nose,” 4 I want to mention are:
1. Wash your genitals. Yeah. You should. Avoid harsh soaps and for optimum health and presentation ladies should avoid chemical douching, by most accounts any douching if not medically instructed to. It can disrupt the balance of flora in the vagina and not only cause itching and other problems, but what smells like flowers today may smell worse long term from the imbalances caused.
2. Cut and file nails: short nails make fingering easier and safer- but many, especially ladies may have long nails. Make sure your nails aren’t sharp, and above all that they are CLEAN before fingering. If you have long nails be careful. Gloves can help with hygiene and long nails to prevent scratches. This isn’t for everyone as some may find it weird or too sterile etc.
3. If she says don’t pull out.... this ones up to you. If you trust your partner, if the two of you are using birth control and have discussed it ahead of time, you’re ok with a pregnancy etc- do you. It’s better to pull out of you don’t want a baby, don’t know or trust their word on birth control etc. but even pulling out can make a baby. Nothing like having to pull out and then STILL finding out you’re gonna be a parent. So better advice is.. use a condom if this is an issue. Because guess what? If you don’t know her or trust her enough to know if she’s on birth control, you likely should t know or trust her enough to know she doesn’t have an STD- which pulling out doesn’t do anything for. If you aren’t willing to risk a pregame you with this woman- wrap your willie or stay out of the vagina. There are other holes and other ways to orgasm.
Finally 4: socks. Most people won’t think socks are sexy, unless they’re stockings or it’s a “schoolgirl” “soccer player” etc. type thing. But... studies actually show that people, especially women, may have higher chances of climaxing in socks. It’s thought it has to do with the fact that they keep the feet warm and may also offer some psychological sense of security. So I wouldn’t take this one as a hard rule, and may even recommend that those who haven’t tried it or have trouble climaxing give it a go and see if socks help.
Socks are the best. And remember, as Lieutenant Dan said " Socks, cushion, sole, O.D. green. Try and keep your feet dry when we're out humpin'. I want you boys to remember to change your socks wherever we stop. The Mekong will eat a grunt's feet right off his legs."
#16 is actually incorrect at least in some instances iirc. They (the infamous "them" ) did a study somewhere that found if someone's cold they're likely to have more trouble achieving orgasm. Socks can prevent heat loss, increase comfort levels, and thereby help the body stay more focused on enjoying the task at hand
I can confirm. This is part of my long post above. I read it many years ago... maybe around 2007 or so(?) But I don’t recall the source. There have been several independent studies of varying samples and methodologies that support the conclusion. The most recent I am aware of is a 2016 study from University of Groningen.
I'll add that number 6 , "Don't blow into the vagina," means don't forcibly push *air* into the vagina. An air bubble could materialize in your partner's blood stream, and that could easily kill them.
1. Wash your genitals. Yeah. You should. Avoid harsh soaps and for optimum health and presentation ladies should avoid chemical douching, by most accounts any douching if not medically instructed to. It can disrupt the balance of flora in the vagina and not only cause itching and other problems, but what smells like flowers today may smell worse long term from the imbalances caused.
2. Cut and file nails: short nails make fingering easier and safer- but many, especially ladies may have long nails. Make sure your nails aren’t sharp, and above all that they are CLEAN before fingering. If you have long nails be careful. Gloves can help with hygiene and long nails to prevent scratches. This isn’t for everyone as some may find it weird or too sterile etc.