Could've communicated it differently. Talked about the weight and that it is becoming an issue and then suggest to tackle it with those BDSM workouts...? Maybe?
Bro that’s a fast way to break a relationship.
“I’m sorry, but I want you to be more healthy. I still love you”
“No you don’t you hate me. This is over. You don’t love me for who I am. Go get a skinny hoe”
I think it's important to also be sexually attracted to your partner if neither of you are asexual. And it's only fair to communicate it when there's a factor that makes you lose your sexual interest in your partner imo. Do what you want with that info then, but anything else wouldn't be fair.
12 hour gym only. The other 12 hours its a dungeon. "RUN you wimpy maggot! If you want to kiss my feet you better work up a sweat" "Yes, Mistress" (now ask yourself, regular gym or dungeon).
I'm not sure about this in particular but I am a bit concerned about the 11 year age gap. He may be manipulating her in more ways than this one because she's young and naive.
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Looks as though he likes them way younger, skinny and not too bright. What a nice guy...
Exactly my thoughts. Saying "I don't like having sex with you and I tried to trick you into getting in shape" sounds pretty mean. Maybe an older guy who relies on girls with lower self esteem or something. Or maybe he's just a tactless bozo and doesn't know how to say it nicely. Idk, we can't judge an entire relationship from this one post, but I am getting slightly creepy vibes. I remember how naive I was when I was 18 and getting into a relationship with someone 11 years older who's a) at a completely different place in life, b) so willing to enter a relationship with someone so young, naive and inexperienced... a guy tried that stuff on me when I was 13 and he was like 25 and I had to be the mature one and tell him it absolutely wouldn't work, not to mention eww dude I was a kid.
I know some girls like older guys precisely because they're more experienced and whatnot but my brain just screams that it can put you in a vulnerable position. I think a larger age gap can work when you're both already out of school, working full time jobs etc because then there's not such a power imbalance, but a 29 year old dating an 18 year old doesn't sit well with me. Same goes for housewife - breadwinner type situations. I understand that some people prefer that lifestyle and I hope it works out well for them, but I couldn't bring myself to be put in a situation where I'm entirely financially dependent on someone, because it provides such an amazing way to control a person.
Anyway my ramblings aren't really going anywhere so I'll just reiterate, we can't judge based on this post only but I am totally getting uncomfortable vibes.
It says at the start that she is 18 and he is 29. She says a few months passed and also that he didn't like her old weight which, to an extend, makes it sound like she was underage when they started dating. I think that's the point @jensonsbooty was trying to make. But he definitely said he didn't like her previous weight, if that's what you're pointing out @tarotnathers13th. One way or another, the whole thing isn't phrased very well
“I’m sorry, but I want you to be more healthy. I still love you”
“No you don’t you hate me. This is over. You don’t love me for who I am. Go get a skinny hoe”
Anyway my ramblings aren't really going anywhere so I'll just reiterate, we can't judge based on this post only but I am totally getting uncomfortable vibes.